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Pension splitting – how do we come to an agreement? read article
In voluntary pension splitting, the pension entitlements of one spouse are split between the two spouses. The idea is to balance out the financial loss that results from time spent raising children. It’s mostly women who benefit from this partnership-based solution. What do you do, though, if you can’t agree on it as a couple?
Does having children mean giving up your career? read article
It’s mostly women who pull back personally when they have children, while their partners continue to have careers.
We’re expecting a child, who should give up their career? read article
When couples are expecting their first child, it’s important to clarify how the baby will be looked after. To do this, a detailed discussion is needed between the parents-to-be.
Raising twins – a special challenge? read article
When parents are expecting twins, they often ask whether there is anything special about raising them. Fundamentally no, says psychologist Melanie Henriks-Luckinger.
When is a relationship toxic? read article
Mutual harm can occur over longer periods of time within a relationships, and they are then increasingly referred to as toxic. But what does that really mean?
I no longer find my partner sexually attractive read article
There can be a number of reasons why people no longer like sharing a bed with their partner, no longer like to touch their partner and no longer feel any sexual attraction or desire for their partner.
How do I say I want to break up? read article
When you want to end a relationship, it can be hard to find the right time and the right words.
Constant conflict due to differing opinions read article
“Birds of a feather flock together” and “opposites attract”. Both are true in partners, but when frustration about different values, opinions or attitudes predominate, the couple need to do something.
Pregnant at 50 read article
The number of women who become pregnant later in life is not small. There are then often a lot of questions for them to deal with.
My partner is never at home read article
In the short or long term, too much distance in relationships leads to conflicts. It needs a great deal of attention to handle this correctly.
Couples in isolation read article
When couples cut themselves off from the world too much, this can lead to a toxic change in the relationship.
How children change life as a couple read article
When a couple becomes parents, a few things change. “In principle it’s the same for everyone, although there are of course a lot of individual components, like the life situation the child comes into,” explains Eva Bitzan.
Keeping the peace during conflict read article
During his counselling sessions, Martin Krautschneider often deals with clients who seek his help due to ongoing conflicts and disputes.
You want to get married? Sorry, but I don’t. read article
When the topic of marriage comes up in relationships, it is entirely possible for the couple to have completely different opinions. One of the two wants to get married, the other doesn’t. Stalemate?
The mobile as a disruptive element in a partnership read article
Mobile phones are common topics in counseling, particularly with issues relating to jealousy, attention or spending time together as a couple.
Who’s going to look after the children – you or me? read article
Couples often don’t agree on who should look after the children. The first question that comes up is where does that come from?
When divorce seems impossible read article
When married couples no longer feel that a marriage is right for them and they think about divorce, they often feel that their circumstances make it impossible to get divorced.
Expectations of a partnership read article
Relationships are fundamentally shaped by people’s expectations, and in a relationship we want to live up to our partner’s expectations.
My children don’t accept my new partner read article
There are often difficulties when people start a new relationship after separating from the mother or father of their children.
How can I best get to know my patchwork children? read article
There is a kind of forced dependence between stepparents and stepchildren – you should be able to get along with one another even if you don’t like one another at the start.
Contraception is relevant for everyone read article
Ignorance, a feeling of shame or incorrect information from sources that were not carefully selected – these are the obstacles that come up time and time again when it comes to talking about contraception with young people.
